Last March, about a half-hour after the award ceremony at the NCAA
Championships in Lake Placid, as Toomas and I were cleaning and packing up the
wax cabin after a long week, Trond burst in with a giddy smile on his face and
said, "Hey Adam! Your hero, Fred Fayette, is right outside the door! You
should go out and say hello." And of course I did, but it was a little
hard to get a private audience with him at that particular moment, because
others had also noticed that Fred was in the parking lot, and lots of folks
wanted to come over and chat with him, since he hadn't been seen around the
venue all week. Nevertheless, we got a chance to catch up on the latest, and to
agree about how privileged we both were to be able to hang around the college
ski circuit for so many years. I left our conversation feeling a little bit
refreshed after a disappointing race week, and I was already looking forward to
the next time our paths would cross. But Fred died the following month, on
April 26.
Fred Fayette was the volunteer assistant coach at the University
of Vermont for what seemed like forever. He graduated from UVM in 1969, and as
far as I can tell, he started working as a volunteer assistant right after
graduation. By the time I was a high school skier in New Hampshire in the
1980’s, he’d been a volunteer assistant coach at UVM for quite a few years. By
the time I was a college ski racer, at the University of Wyoming, I was getting
pretty well accustomed to seeing him beside the trail or in the parking lot at
the race venue whenever UVM was in attendance. And during my races, I could
always count on hearing something nice from Fred as I passed by his spot beside
the trail, whether it was a reliable, accurate split, or just an encouraging word.
Over the years, I grew more and more fond of seeing Fred at ski
races. It started to become a highlight of my college skiing experience, first
as a racer but then, more so, as a volunteer assistant coach myself. Because it
was then that I started to see Fred as a role model that I could learn from and
try to emulate to some small degree in my own involvement with the sport.
There was no question that Fred’s approach to his role with UVM
was the ideal that I was aiming for, whenever possible, as my role with UAA has
gradually expanded and deepened. His skill set and mine are not particularly
similar, but it was his approach to his role – his sincerity – that really
inspired me. I guess my appreciation for Fred’s involvement with UVM hasn’t
gone unnoticed by the UAA coaches; many is the time former UAA coach Andrew
Kastning or current (and past) UAA coach Trond Flagstad have made comments to
the effect that maybe someday, if I play my cards right, I could be a volunteer
assistant coach in the mold of Fred Fayette. And I’ve always found those
offhand comments from Andrew and Trond to be inspiring.
The University of Vermont Ski Team in particular will feel his absence. I recommend you take a moment to read a little more about Fred’s role with UVM here and here. Or you can hear from Fred himself here: Fred Fayette Video. This is a man who made his part of the world a better place. And a lot of people bettered themselves by crossing paths with Fred Fayette.
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